Say It, Don’t Just Think It your sense of joy, appreciation, thankfulness or gratitude has a greater effect than simply making a relationship work more smoothly. Think about this: God “spoke” and creation was the result. He spoke and there was light, the planets and stars, living things in the sea, the air and on land.

What happens when you speak joy?

One researcher looking into sound and its effects upon substances is Dr. Masaru Emoto. To view some of his research, click here70% – 80% of your body is water and water vibrates to sound…even sound that is below or above your hearing threshold. Your thoughts and intents create sound frequencies that you cannot hear but they have an effect upon your own body as well as the bodies of those around you.

The photo of the effects of “thank you” versus “I hate you, I’m going to kill you”and the photo of the effects of heavy metal were all very dramatic. Many times we say nothing, even though we feel gratitude and thankfulness. Doubtless, that is not without effect, but I would think, to speak would set an even stronger sound frequency into motion.

Imagine the beauty you could create in your family, friends and colleagues, or the damage you could do with hateful thoughts and words. It is no wonder the Psalmist asked the Lord to put a watch upon his lips! Psalm 141:3

I was struck by another comment in this video (click here) Please view past the beginning to the presentation. (David Lee in not really my favorite!) The comment was that “particles are held in formation as long as the frequency remains the same.” If you remove the frequency it essentially falls apart. Is this so different from  Act 17:28, “In Him we live and move and have our being.” We are here because God called us into being and sustains us. Pretty amazing.

I want to align, spirit, soul and body, with the creative power of blessing that comes constantly from God so that I might reflect His purposes into my family, church and community. How about you?


Action  Step:  This week don’t be shy and keep your feelings and thoughts inside. Bless someone out loud and set up a strong positive frequency they can vibrate to for a long time!

We would love to hear what you created by your expressions of thankfulness and appreciation.

May your joy be full, Chris & Carol


Chris Coursey, MA Theology – Author, Speaker and Thrive Trainer,

Twitter – @coursey_chris

Carol A. Brown, Author of The Mystery of Spiritual Sensitivity and Highly Sensitive

Carol’s email –


Got your license yet?

Greetings all! I have been off-line far too long…but the Lord has brought me a beautiful new (to me) computer with one of those screens that doesn’t hurt my eyes! It’s wonderful, but now comes the learning curve. So if we have some strange occurrences on the blog, you know why!

1,000 churches on JOY in 2014!

This is the challenge we have given ourselves. Can we do it? With your help…yes! On the last Round Table one item that surfaced was, how do you go about becoming a facilitator for Connexus. I thought it would be helpful to post the process:

  • Begin with a Joy Starts Here study group. It does not have to be very big and can be in your home or the church. Just a few friends getting together. There is no advanced training needed.


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  • If you do not have a developed relationship with leadership (new to the community) work on building relationships with influencers within the church. It may be the pastor but do not limit yourself to just talking to him about starting Joy Starts Here group. A Sunday School teacher already has credibility with leadership and it might be easier to establish trust with them or a deacon, etc. while continuing to build relationship with the pastor.
  • As you work through the book, taking the evaluations as you go, people get a taste of joy and begin to self assign themselves to the appropriate next step…either Restarting or Foundations. They realize that they live in a low joy environment and might be lacking in skills, so Restarting seems the way to go. Or, they realize they are pretty comfortable in their environments and want to pursue intimacy with the Lord, which means they would fit better in Forming.

JSH Assessment Scales 2

  • Obtain a license to run Connexus classes. For information on facilitator training go to
  • Begin Restarting and Forming from those who completed Joy Starts Here.
  • Bring the two groups together in Belonging and build a joy filled community with the weak and strong together.


  • Celebrate and repeat! We can infect our communities with joy. Let’s do it!

If your church would like to have an event to introduce the concept of joy in our lives, be sure to contact our office (below)—and talk to us. We’d also enjoy meeting you at the Round Tables. You can find the schedule here.



Surprise Announcement–Watch for it in the coming in the November newsletter! Jim Martini has a secret…and he isn’t telling anyone!

October Events–Chris will be traveling and ministering through the rest of this month. Your prayers a much appreciated for his health issues. Sitting and standing are challenging, and that is most of what he is doing this month. Chiropractic therapy is helping. We are praising God.

November Round Tables–Tuesday, November 4th, 12pm EST. East Coast Roundtable. Tuesday, November 18th, 3pm EST. West Coast Roundtable. Register.

May your joy be full,  Chris & Carol

Chris Coursey, MA Theology – Author, Speaker and Thrive Trainer,

Twitter – @coursey_chris

Carol A. Brown, Author of The Mystery of Spiritual Sensitivity and Highly Sensitive

Carol’s email –